Coping with Terminal Diagnosis

Released on = March 17, 2007, 7:52 am

Press Release Author = Dr Laurence Magne

Industry = Healthcare

Press Release Summary = From the desk of Dr Magne, author of Cancer Free For Life.

Press Release Body = The psychological challenges that confront us when we are
exposed to catastrophic news can be seen in our faces and postures immediately. They
are the mind\'s automatic attempt to integrate and assimilate the brutal reality of a
traumatic event.

When we receive a shocking cancer diagnosis, our normal assumptions are ruptured,
and our understanding of the \"rules\" of daily living are shocked and upset. Not only
do we experience strong emotions in these times, we actually lose our balance
psychologically. This loss of stability and psychological equilibrium are what we
aim to regain as we experience the waves of emotions in the weeks and months that
follow our exposure.

One important point to know and to remember is that the natural, common, and normal
reactions that you experience may feel quite painful and may make you wonder if your
mind is playing tricks on you. In the vast majority of cases, your reactions are
normal, even if they are very strong and upsetting.

There are three kinds of experience that most people have:

Intrusion: this bad dreams or nightmares, anxiety or fear when exposed to reminders
of the trauma, painful thoughts about what happened, and losing track of the present
and feeling like what happened is happening again.

Avoidance: this takes the form of social isolation, not thinking or talking about
the traumatic event, or using alcohol or drugs to avoid painful thoughts and
feelings.
The natural course of coming to terms with a traumatic event involves oscillating
between intrusion and avoidance. We flip back and forth over the course of minutes
as well as over the course of days and weeks.

Hyperarousal: the third natural response comes from the \"fight or flight response\",
which is part of our evolutionary heritage. This is manifest in disturbed sleep,
trouble concentrating, being easily startled, and being overly watchful, on guard,
and jumpy.
Here are some ways to cope :

Communicate
Talk to those who want to and are able to listen. Be aware that there will be times
when others aren\'t able to or don\'t want to listen.
Protect yourself from information overload
Turn away from the information overload -turn off the television or radio, and stop
surfing the Internet for the latest bulletin. Our need for information is driven by
our need to regain a sense of control, but when the world is still rocking, real
control is not yet available.
Avoid \'escapist\' behavior
Avoid alcohol, drugs, or immersion in work as a way to distract yourself. Better to
deal with the painful feelings as they happen than to put them aside.

Time is the great healer for those exposed to trauma.
Dr Magne has been researching the origins and causes of disease and cancer for the
past 25 years. Visit www.cancer-free-for-life.com to receive a FREE report on The 10
Ways to Cure Cancer Immediately. This article is available for reprint for your
website and newsletter, provided that you maintain its copyright integrity and
include the signature.

Web Site = http://cancer-free-for-life.com

Contact Details = Dr Laurence Magne
Publisher, Author
Cancer Free For Life
Email : lmagne@yahoo.com
Website : http://cancer-free-for-life.com

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